A good Japanese boy often has a weakness in beauty and "perfect" women.This can be a number of reasons, but I think first of all, I'm not confident in myself.
By feeling that the other person is "perfect", you feel that you are not a match, and as a result, you hesitate to take a step forward.In Japanese culture, there is a strong tendency to fear failure and rejection in the relationship with people.
The psychology of approaching the "perfect" opponent and wanting to avoid being damaged by being rejected.It can also overdo it for beautiful women and excellent women.By doing so, the opponent looks like a flower of Takamine, and even ordinary conversations and interactions will feel difficult.
There are still old values that men should lead, especially in Japanese society and age groups.Therefore, if you feel that your opponent is "perfect", you will not be able to act aggressively because you are worried whether you can meet that expectation.If you think about it, you think it's troublesome.
For these reasons, it is understandable that Japanese boys are not good at beautiful and perfect women.However, you may be able to build a relationship more naturally by deepening self -understanding and confidence and treating the other party without overlooking too much.
Beauty and "perfect" women are also ordinary people.If you think it's perfect, it will be difficult to get close, but if you understand that the other person has a problem or drawback, I am still not good at beautiful women while saying that it can be more natural.
Speaking of which, I wrote a self -development book for love I read in the past.
The solution is, "It's important to gradually increase communication with the other party instead of suddenly taking big actions. Start with greetings and light conversations, and then provide a friendly topic little by little.However, by gradually deepening the relationship, you will not be able to do so.Do you care?At the time, I stopped thinking that the quality I was born would be high.But there is no particular regret.
Recently, a junior junior who was under my job said.
Apparently the same ● school classmate woman.It seems that the child worked at a famous coffee shop in Shinjuku.In the grade, it seems that he was a prominent person, and in the rank, he was a cute child in the middle.
The junior asked me, "... I was a classmate, but ...
How do you ask if it's uncomfortable or not bad?I think it's the tension of that person.I thought that it would be uncomfortable if a 30 -year -old man who had no fatness would look back and turned over with tension without the front.But I didn't tell my junior.
I was afraid that such a guy was an uncle's reserve army.Sudden action is no good, but from a huge angle, she sleeps a woman with medicine and becomes a Dutch Wife.Providing a realmako for Japanese boys who are good at it.
If you sleep, you don't have to talk, whether you're a beautiful woman or not, and you don't have a bad face.I will never be depressed.Just a lump of meat.The symbol is a woman.Moreover, if you insert a chick because of the medicine, it will be called "yoguri" ...You can also enjoy the feeling of being a woman with your own dick.Get the confidence of a man.
Uncle is a dark hero of shy Japanese boys.
